Hey, AjayJp! well this is the resolution- around 2 weeks or more back I used to get disconnected every 5-10 mins from all chat clients, instant messengers et al. the dsl link would go down. and now there is still disconnection problem, but is less frequent. once in a few hours, or sometimes once or twice every hour. and i have seen the dsl link go down yesterday just once.
just confirmed from my friend who lives in chennai and uses BSNL, he says he stays online on the chat sites for 6-7 hours and yet doesn't get disconnected even once. so the problem is with my provider. where is the problem? this is still unsolved, because only few mins back I had a disconnection and yahoo messenger ( which was fine so many days ) also restarted.
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Well, after so many complaints, all that has been done is that the frequency of disconnections has gone down, apart from that i can't say i have a steady, stable connection.